we had a fight this morning.

as we’ve said many times, the idea of this blog is on how hannah and I don’t spend enough time together. and so what little time we do have is coveted.  

as we’ve written about many times, self-love & awareness is very important to us. they are principles we live by. and we hold those values very dear. 

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and so, this morning, we were at a standstill because I had gone out of my way to find time with her this morning and she had made previous agreement to herself to go to yoga this morning, something . in short, we went back and forth, until we both made each feel guilty about both decisions. yet another standstill. 

in the end, she chose to stay at home until I had to go and took the next class, a class she didn’t want to take as much as the other but she did it. 

though this could easily turn into another sappy post about thankful I am for her and what an incredible human being she is and how no one has ever taken value in the way she does and how great she makes me feel, but I won’t (even though that’s all very much true). what I will say is disagreeing and agruing is a part of being two separate people, which is something we both often forget. and it has a part in a healthy relationship, but we won’t do, and this is, to each his/her own is walk away from the conversation. we communicate. we discuss. we solve and kiss. 

though she did end up staying home (and went to a class a little later) it worked for the both of us in the end as we had an incredible morning (see below) catching up on work & holding hands. 

(yes, i do realize this wasn’t really a real fight, but to be completely honest, this is as dramatic as disagreements get)